Closure
Closure, defined, as 'an act of closing:the condition of being closed,' may be able to be obtained if things are cut, dry, but what if things aren't so neat? What if there are open-ended questions needing to be answered? Some days, forgiveness does not always mean re-connection nor does it mean reconciliation, and this too can be said for closure. Simply because you're in a place to cope, deal and process the emotions entangled around a situation, you may be able to move past this place in life ... alone ... It is the times when you are not in a place to cope, deal and process where it hurts you. A situation can go from good to great, from great to good and from great to worse, but once things have gone sour, not much can be said of it. Especially if you are left without an understanding or reason the thing may have gone sour. I have always been deductive, inquisitive and knowledge-seeking; if there is an answer to a question, I want it. Not having an answer to the que...